Availability Isn’t Performance (After Coffee)

“What time works best for you?” And out of habit – or maybe, the way I have been groomed over the years, I said, “Anytime, just tell me when.”

They looked at me and said something simple but surprising:

They looked at me and said something simple but surprising:

“No. We don’t expect you to be available all the time! We care about your work-life balance, your potential and growth, and want you to be at your best when you work for us, and you feel it is convenient.”

This was a conversation that happened recently, and I realised that most of us no longer think in terms of time slots.

We work around the clock responding, replying, attending… without ever asking ourselves when we actually perform our best.

Yet, research tells us that when we work matters far more than we realise.

A 2025 study on productivity rhythms found that less than 30% of people perform their best between 9 AM and 5 PM, i.e., the traditional work window, and that cognitive performance peaks at varied times across individuals.

Some are sharpest early morning. Some in the afternoon. Some even at night.

In classrooms, too, students in early morning sessions are significantly more likely to report lower attention and engagement compared to mid-morning or early afternoon.

By 5 PM, everyone has attention fatigue… not from lack of interest, but from simply being awake for too long.

That doesn’t mean early morning or late evening is “bad.” It means human focus isn’t one-size-fits-all.

It’s the same with professional roles.

A strategist might have their sharpest ideas between 11–2.

A designer may find flow after lunch.

A writer might produce their best lines late night.

Psychologists call this variability chronotypes, the natural cognitive rhythms that influence how our attention, creativity, and decision-making fluctuate throughout the day.

What’s interesting is how workplace thinking is shifting.

Instead of asking someone to be available round the clock, HR managers are now asking “When do you do your best work? We are okay with flexibility and we care for your work life balance.”

Because availability doesn’t equal performance.

How often we keep working without ever examining when we work effectively? Not because we can’t choose, but because no one ever asked us.

If you could schedule your work only when you actually needed to present, meet, teach, or submit some document, and you could choose the day and time (8–11 am, 11–2 pm, 2–5 pm, or 5–8 pm), which window would you pick?

After morning coffee, of course.

Finally, this week, I quit. Did you, yet?

Oh, this isn’t explicitly work-related. For some years, someone continued to misbehave. Criticize. Compare when the discussion wasn’t even relevant. Another intruded into my domain because they had a power backup. They misused that power and tried to deteriorate my image publicly. And then, recently, someone else told me I was “too sweet”.

They said this is why I find it hard to say no or to question when my ideas, feelings, concerns, values, or thoughts are dismissed and just considered trivial info. Another person highlighted my over-positivity despite all of this, which, while a positive trait, often leaves me getting neglected and taken for granted.

How does one maintain their positivity when they’re hurting? How do they continue to show kindness when others are cruel to them? How does one always adjust to others’ convenience?

Despite the pain, some people continue to put others first and express happiness when the others who hurt them receive love, care, empathy, protection, and appreciation, often at the expense of their own well-being.

Is it easy? No.
Then why do they continue to do this? Because these people, even though a few, are simply good, honest, and pure human beings.

People tell them to never give up. Go out of your way. Go beyond your boundaries. 
And they keep pushing with zero reciprocity and nil acknowledgment.

So, knowing when to quit this deliberate toxicity around you takes more strength. And self-awareness. And yes. It’s unbelievably shattering and heartbreaking.

But it’s about recognizing and actually accepting when something, or someone, is no longer there for us – maybe never was – and having the courage to walk away – mentally or even physically. It could be a person, place, situation, project, relation, or anything!

Quitting on someone or something opens you to embracing what you are meant to be and do. Let go when you need to.

This week, I have. And it has now allowed me to be firm on what I want and be there only for those who matter to me. Have you?

Good Dog Day

A blissful, basking-in-the-sun kind of Sunday morning for Piku, Jimmy, and Elfu.

My fur-babies Piku, Jimmy and Elfu.

I, on the other hand, am sitting on the terrace, with my laptop, staring at an email I just received, that feels like a forceful, dominating, and pressurized déjà vu – for I have received and responded to the much similar emails from different persons, multiple times, with the same concerns. Yet again. Another documentation. This feels like a vicious circle.

This day is a vicious circle for these three fur-babies too. They keep doing this every day; I guess even when I am at work.

But apparently, they are ignorant of any déjà vu, free from the pressure of documentation for what they do, say, or think. They don’t even know that I clicked their picture and shared it on social media. They don’t care what they look like, what people say, or what I am doing to them. For they know, I am there for them, and I will never hurt them and make sure to protect them, from everyone, till my last breath because I have done that in the past. Trust is the key. Actions speak louder than words. Who can we trust? Just ourselves.

Ugh. We, humans, are impacted a little too much by documentation of what we say, think or write – digitally and mentally.

Once in a while, we all need to woof away. Bask in the sun, bark our heart out and wag at and cuddle the ones we love, and get a treat. And have a good dog day.

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